Emotional Literacy in the Workplace.

Marla Pelletier • September 16, 2025

How often do you connect with your feelings at work?

It's not a common practice to talk about emotions.


Being called emotional or giving too much authority to emotions has even been seen as a negative quality.


At Inward Office, we travel to businesses in Upstate NY to teach mindfulness in the workplace, so emotions can be addressed professionally and positively to empower employees and business owners.


To begin, we need to recognize all the different experiences that we have on a neuro-biological level. Emotions are a part of being human. So are body sensations, thoughts, needs and expectations. All of these can impact the way we act in the world.


For example, we get into a car accident in the morning. We are full of thoughts and emotions, and it affects how we talk to our colleagues during then day because of our pre-occupation with our morning experience. This is completely normal and ignoring our emotions can only have detrimental effects to individuals as well as the culture within the workplace.


Use the list below to begin to improve your emotional literacy. and recognize which emotions are most common within your workplace.


Noticing emotions isn't a negative thing. It's my experience that as soon as I can name the emotion, it's hold on my mind and body seems to let go.


If any of these negative emotions are present within your workplace and you feel the impact of unmet needs, consider scheduling one of our workshops that address theses negative emotions to transform your workplace. We recommend our Nonviolent Communication workshops, Empathetic Communication, Mindful Communication, Mindfulness at Work, or we can customize a workshop for your needs. All of these workshops can also be held online nation wide.


The difference that meeting theses needs can make in your workplace is significant. 


CLICK HERE to contact us for more information and to schedule your workshop.



Feelings Associated with Unmet Needs

ANGER

aggravated

angry

animosity

annoyed

contempt

disgruntled

enraged

exasperated

furious

hate

hostile

incensed

irate

irritated

irked

livid

miffed

nettled

outraged

peeved

resentful


AVERSION

abhorrence

appalled

bothered displeased

disgust

dislike

enmity

horrified

loathing

repulsion

revulsion


CONFUSION

ambivalent

baffled bewildered

conflicted

dazed

discombobulated

disoriented

mixed

mystified

perplexed puzzled

torn


DISCONNECTION

apathetic

bored

closed

detached

distant

indifferent

listless

numb

withdrawn


DISQUIET

agitated

alarmed

concerned

distraught

disconcerted

dismayed

disturbed

frustrated

perturbed

rattled

restless

shocked

startled

surprised

troubled

turbulent

turmoil

uncomfortable

uneasy

unnerved

unsettled

upset


EMBARRASSMENT

ashamed

chagrined

discomfited

flustered

mortified

self-conscious


FATIGUE

beat

burnt out

depleted

exhausted

listless

pooped

sleepy

tired

weary

wiped out

worn out


FEAR

afraid

anxious

apprehensive

dread

fearful

foreboding

frightened

guarded

insecure

leery

mistrustful

panicked

petrified

scared

shaky

terrified

trepidation

wary

worried


PAIN

aching

agony

anguished

devastated

grief

heartbroken

hungry

hurting

lonely

miserable

regretful

remorseful


SADNESS

depressed

dejected

despairing

despondent

disappointed

discouraged

disheartened

forlorn

gloomy

heavy hearted

hopeless

melancholy

miserable

unhappy

wistful


TENSION

anxious

closed

distressed

edgy

fidgety

frazzled

frustrated

jittery

nervous

overwhelmed

restless

stressed out


YEARNING

longing

nostalgic

pining

Feelings Associated with Met Needs

AFFECTIONATE

compassionate

fond

loving

openhearted

tender

warm

 

ENGAGED

absorbed

curious

engrossed

enchanted

enthralled

entranced

fascinated

interested

intrigued

involved

open

spellbound

stimulated


EXCITED

amazed

ardent

aroused

dazzled

energetic

enlivened

enthusiastic

exuberant

invigorated

lively

passionate

surprised

vibrant


EXHILARATED

enthralled

radiant

electrified

euphoric

overjoyed

thrilled


GRATEFUL

appreciative

moved

thankful

touched


HAPPY

amused

blissful

cheerful

delighted

ecstatic

elated

giddy

glad

jolly

joyful

jubilant

merry

overjoyed

pleased

rapturous

tickled


HOPEFUL

confident

expectant

jazzed

lighthearted

sanguine

up

upbeat


INSPIRED

amazed

eager

enthused

motivated

moved

psyched

stimulated

stirred

wonder


PEACEFUL

calm

comfortable

centered

content

equanimity

fulfilled

mellow

open

quiet

relaxed

relieved

satisfied

serene

tranquil


REFRESHED

recharged

rejuvenated

renewed

rested

restored

revived

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